If you have been following my blog for awhile you would know that I work in the horse racing industry. Our "Hobart Cup" was held yesterday, hence my absence from my blog for a little while - so now that it's over we can all get back to regular programming. So "Hello" and sorry for being a bit lax answering e-mails - I am slowly getting through them.
You will remember me chatting about my grandma in a recent post and how much influence she had in my life in the early years. She was a country woman and was big on loyalty......, On treating people how you wish to be treated, On respect and of just plain good old fashioned values - They are the things that matter to me and I hope that I have also instilled those values into my children.
But sometimes someone comes into your life who no matter how hard you look you can see no good? I don't mean that in a malice way at all because I always try to find the good in not only everyone but in every situation - I am a half glass full girl, but sometimes you just have to admit defeat and decide that no matter how hard you try this person has no place in your life.
No matter how welcoming you are or how many times you make excuses for their behaviour - There is no excuse.......
So all you can do is remove them from your life..... Life is too short to be miserbale or let someone make you feel that way
So onwards and upwards from here. Hubs and I have discussed "my" situation at length and we have decided what will be will be - What matters to us is our family and each other and nothing else matters..... Nothing
So tomorrow will be the first day of the rest of our lives - and the first day of me taking back control of one of the big pieces of my life...... I may well have confused many of you here but I have made a HUGE life decision - A decision that will probably change the path of all of our lives but as they say as one door closes another opens.........
I'll be back really soon with a new piece of furniture I recently thrifted and am busting to make over.
Hugs - Fee X